Well, I've been writing the 3 week post for the past week and now it's time for the 4 week post. We've been busy...having fun, changing diapers, dealing with melt downs, getting to know our new daughter and the new sides of our not so new daughter, and trying to enjoy and appreciate as much of it as we can.
Needless to say, it's been much more challenging w/out live-in help, but I feel like we're getting into the swing of things. Elise doesn't yet have any kind of predictable schedule, which is hard, and she cries a lot more than Nora did, which is harder, but Nora has definitely been the more challenging of the two. She's been MUCH more sensitive lately, which is equal parts annoying and heartbreaking and has been testing her limits much more than usual, which is mostly just annoying (although completely understandable). We've completely given up on potty training and actually decided to not even mention the potty for a week or so to give her back control over one thing. We've also stopped saying "you need to ____" after we noticed her repeating "I don't need to...I don't need to" when she was upset. Poor thing. As difficult as this has been for her, however, she doesn't ever take it out on Elise - every morning she says "I need to see baby Elise" and tells her she loves her; she holds her little hand to cheer her up during diaper changes; she talks about how cute/pretty Elise is; and she's (almost) always very gentle. I try to tell her every day how proud I am of her and that I know it's hard sometimes. These little ladies are very lucky to have such wonderful sisters.
So much to say, so little time...I'll just jump right to the pictures.
Cute little 4 week old girl...

Strong strong neck...

With Gma and Gpa B...

She's getting chunkier by the day!

Pretty girl...

Nora got all fancied up...

Nora's been very good at playing by herself while Elise nurses. She even makes her dolls and stuffed animals talk back and forth to each other. So cute.

The key to our days is getting Nora to nap and, so far, a walk in the stroller is the least stressful way to do that (even if it's cold and slushy out). The results from our first weekday walk...success!


On Saturday we spent the morning at the Zoo - Elise slept through most of it...

Nora loved the monkeys...

...especially this mama giving her baby mums. Zoos can be so fun, but so sad.

Watching a sleeping otter...

And, having some lunch before heading home Elise woke up and was mesmerized by the ceiling...

Sleepy Bongorno family...


Later that afternoon Elise finally got to meet her Great Gma!